SIGNS OF VERBAL ABUSE

  • Attacking your sense of self-worth
  • Is excessively jealous and accuses you of being unfaithful.
  • Criticizes or puts you down; says you are crazy, stupid, and/or fat/unattractive, or that no one else would ever want or love you.
  • Rages out of control with you but can maintain composure around others.
  • Finds the things that others like most about you and uses it to make you feel worthless.
  • Humiliates you in public.
  • Uses anything that makes you happy as a format for debate and criticism.
  • Listens to your conversations as means to verbally attack you for what was said or what he / she thinks was said.
  • Twist your words during conversations to initiate an argument.
  • Makes repetitive negative comments consistently so that they become ingrained in your daily thoughts.
  • Blames you for his behavior, accuses your words or actions to instigate confrontations / arguments.